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  1. EmptyNelson

    Relationship Advice.

    I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 6 months now, we’re both in our junior years of high school and I see her everyday. The single-life seems really awesome to me right now, so I am thinking about breaking up with her. I still have feelings for her and love her back I just don’t think a relationship is beneficial to me individually right now. My senior year is coming up soon and I have college after that to worry about as well.The problem is she is such a damn sweet girl. She is madly in love with me and has talked about spending her life with me and how I’m the love of her life. I would respond saying these exact same things back to her because that’s how I felt at the time. I just know that she will collapse if I break up with her. On a logical level I know I must give my own interest the highest priority, but I am afraid that when I see her collapse I will pity her so much that I start doubting my decision. I fear my emotions will fuck with me and that I will interpret the pity I feel as "real love".It's just totally against my nature to hurt good people. I want to break up, but I will feel evil by doing so.There is not really something "wrong" with my girlfriend or with my relationship, it's just not the thing I desire at this stage of my life. On the outside this relationship seems perfect. The breakup would be very sudden to my girlfriend, she thinks everything is fine, which causes me to feel even worse if I do it.Can someone please help me? I am confused... Another note, I’ve met her mom, her little sisters, the whole shabang. Her sister are around 5 or 6 and have come to know me. And I will feel guilty just leaving on a whim like that from them as well. Also, having to discard all the trinkets, photo albums, rings, and everything else she’s gotten me is heartbreaking for the both of us edit: excuse the color I fucked something up